deference
What does "deference" mean?
Deference is a polite, respectful submission to the judgment, opinion, or wishes of another person. The mental image is that of someone lowering their posture or stepping aside to allow a mentor, elder, or authority figure to lead the way or speak first. This word is typically used in formal or professional contexts. It implies a voluntary choice to yield, often out of respect for experience or hierarchy. It is commonly used in phrases like "in deference to" someone’s age or wishes, meaning that you are adjusting your behavior specifically to honor them.
"deference" in conversation
Office meeting
I disagree with the strategy, but I'll hold my tongue.
I disagree with the strategy, but I'll hold my tongue.
That's wise. In deference to the CEO, we should wait until the presentation is over.
That's wise. In deference to the CEO, we should wait until the presentation is over.
Used here to explain why someone is choosing to remain silent in a professional setting.
Family dinner
I think we should say grace before we start.
I think we should say grace before we start.
Of course, Grandpa. Out of deference to you, we'll wait.
Of course, Grandpa. Out of deference to you, we'll wait.
Shows deference as a sign of respect for a family elder's traditions.
"deference" in a sentence
She bowed in deference to the king.
She bowed in deference to the king.
The committee changed the date in deference to her busy schedule.
The committee changed the date in deference to her busy schedule.
His habitual deference toward his superiors often masked a sharp and critical intellect.
His habitual deference toward his superiors often masked a sharp and critical intellect.
