indulgent
What does "indulgent" mean?
To be indulgent means to be overly generous, lenient, or permissive toward someone, often to the point of spoiling them. The mental image is of someone who refuses to say "no," preferring to give in to every whim or desire, whether it is for food, comfort, or behavioral leeway. In practice, this word often carries a slightly critical tone, suggesting that the indulgence might be excessive or unhealthy. However, it can also describe a harmless, self-rewarding action, such as an "indulgent dessert" that is rich and decadent, implying a temporary break from discipline or restraint.
"indulgent" in conversation
Discussing a spoiled child
Do you think we're being too indulgent with Leo?
Do you think we're being too indulgent with Leo?
Maybe, but I just can't help giving him whatever he asks for.
Maybe, but I just can't help giving him whatever he asks for.
Used here to describe a parenting style that lacks necessary boundaries.
At a spa
This chocolate wrap feels so indulgent.
This chocolate wrap feels so indulgent.
You deserve it after such a long work week!
You deserve it after such a long work week!
Used to describe a luxurious, self-care experience.
"indulgent" in a sentence
The grandmother was very indulgent with her grandchildren.
The grandmother was very indulgent with her grandchildren.
He allowed himself an indulgent weekend of movies and junk food.
He allowed himself an indulgent weekend of movies and junk food.
An overly indulgent approach to management can lead to a lack of accountability within the team.
An overly indulgent approach to management can lead to a lack of accountability within the team.
