spat
What does "spat" mean?
A "spat" is a minor, petty argument or quarrel, usually between people who are close to each other. The mental image is of a sudden, brief burst of friction—like a quick splash of water or a small flare-up—that dissipates almost as quickly as it started. It is used to describe disagreements that are trivial or unimportant. While it implies a verbal conflict, it is rarely used for serious or life-altering disputes. It is common to hear it used in the context of friends, couples, or coworkers having a "little spat" over something like chores or travel plans.
"spat" in conversation
Roommates arguing
Are we still fighting over whose turn it is to do the dishes?
Are we still fighting over whose turn it is to do the dishes?
It's just a silly spat, I'll do them tonight.
It's just a silly spat, I'll do them tonight.
Used to downplay the significance of the argument.
Colleagues in the office
Did you see the marketing team?
Did you see the marketing team?
Yeah, just a spat about the slide deck design.
Yeah, just a spat about the slide deck design.
Describes a brief professional disagreement.
"spat" in a sentence
The couple had a brief spat about which movie to watch.
The couple had a brief spat about which movie to watch.
Don't let a minor spat ruin your friendship.
Don't let a minor spat ruin your friendship.
Despite their frequent spats over household chores, they remained deeply committed to one another.
Despite their frequent spats over household chores, they remained deeply committed to one another.
