i love you

"Ik hou van jou" is the standard, heartfelt way to express romantic love in Dutch. The phrase focuses on the deep, enduring feeling of affection one has for another person, rather than just a momentary surge of emotion. In Dutch, the distinction between "houden van" (to love) and "leuk vinden" (to like) is quite important. You use this phrase primarily for romantic partners or very close family members. It is a significant expression that carries emotional weight, so it is usually reserved for moments of sincerity.
In conversation
A romantic evening at home
Ik ben zo blij dat je er bent.
I am so happy that you are here.
Ik hou van jou.
I love you.
A simple and direct way to express affection in an intimate setting.
Before saying goodbye at the station
Bel je me als je aankomt?
Will you call me when you arrive?
Natuurlijk. Ik hou van jou, tot snel!
Of course. I love you, see you soon!
Adding 'tot snel' (see you soon) makes the declaration feel natural before a short separation.
Examples
Ik hou van jou.
I love you.
Ik hou heel veel van jou.
I love you very much.
Ik wil dat je weet dat ik van je hou.
I want you to know that I love you.